Surprising Non-Montessori Items I Embraced

Posted by Ariane Le Carboulec Sep 18, 2024 Montessori, Parenting, Tips

As an educator, creating a Montessori environment was second nature to me. But when I became a parent, especially during the pandemic, I discovered that some non-Montessori baby items could be surprisingly helpful. While Montessori emphasizes freedom of movement, exploration within limits, and nurturing independence, I found myself drawn to Magda Gerber’s RIE philosophy, which also prioritizes respectful caregiving but acknowledges the use of “containers” like cribs and playpens as tools for safety and self-regulation. These items, though not strictly Montessori, became essential for maintaining a balance between my child’s independence and my own needs.

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Here are three non-Montessori items that I never thought I’d use, but that became my lifesavers:

The Playpen

As my son outgrew the bouncer, I went on a mission to find the perfect playpen—one that would allow him to move freely while still keeping him safe. I discovered a handmade, non-toxic playpen on Etsy, crafted by a French-Mexican couple. Unlike traditional playpens, this one creates a true yes space, allowing for unrestricted movement and independent exploration. Unlike enclosed play yards, it doesn’t confine movement but provides a secure space for safe self-directed play.

It’s large—expanding up to 71 inches in diameter—yet foldable and easy to store, which made it a perfect fit for our narrow Boston apartment. Over time, it became our son’s safe place—his own cozy spot where he felt secure and at ease. Assembly takes just a minute, and its natural materials blend beautifully into our home. To make it even more Montessori-friendly, I rotated toys in baskets and initially used the cabinet behind it as a Montessori shelf. Hands down, one of the best purchases we made.

Finding Your Own Balance

As a parent, it’s important to remember that you are the most vital part of your child’s environment. It’s okay to adapt and use tools that aren’t strictly Montessori if they help you meet your child’s needs—and your own. Using non-Montessori items doesn’t mean you’re failing; it means you’re finding the right balance for your family. After all, parenting is about flexibility and making choices that work for everyone.

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